Hello “everyday, ordinary, unassuming guru” seekers,
One part of you is enthusiastic about meeting those gurus, while another part of you will not understand when they are standing before you. Just relax. Trust they are out there looking for you. You will find them.
Karen seeks an answer to her long-lasting problem (see below)
I have a friend that I have coffee with every Saturday. The problem is that she constantly criticizes me. It’s been like this for years. I don’t know how to change things with her. Any suggestions?
Thank you, Karen Sylvia
A woman walked through the same dense forest every day. And it never failed that she’d end up with a dozen mosquito bites. She’d get upset and whine about this constantly, yet she’d walk through the same dense forest tomorrow.
Let this short story remind you that if you always do what you always did you can be damn sure you will always get what you always got.
It’s useless to seek solutions to ongoing problems if you plan to set up the same situation that invites the problem. A solution comes when changes are made. Solve your stubbornness, by doing things differently, and you will solve your problem.
Blessings & love, Rob
Ps One problem that guarantees to keep problems around is being unable to see the difference between what you do to solve it that’s valuable and what you do that’s useless.