Student: What does it mean to “forgive” someone?
Teacher: You must GIVE up your current condemning point of view FOR something kindly and new.
Student: What does it take to do that effectively?
Teacher: You must give up your thought of condemnation with no mental reservation. Drop the morbid feeling of “being superior” because he did something wrong and you’re right.
Student: What does that do?
Teacher: Until you truly For-Give, you are not able to relax and experience peace around that person you’re condemning – you’re the one suffering most.