Whatever it is that you need or want, you can have it if you get comfortable with the idea of having it. Treat your mind ten minutes each day with the idea that you already have what it is that you want, and practice feeling comfortable having it. Just assume that you have it and practice feeling real natural possessing it. If you do this in earnestness, within a month you will begin attracting what you are wanting. Your ideal becomes real when you psychologically accept it as natural for it to become actual in your life.
Nothing new is being spoken in the above paragraph, but oh can we make more of something than need be.