Step 1: Observe yourself in action when with a friend – the intention being to see yourself as you actually are … not as you imagine yourself to be.
Step 2: Read an autobiography of someone you admire; notice how he/she shares how he found his own way. I can promise you, if it’s an honest autobiography, it’s not all sunshine and roses.
Step 3: Constantly remind yourself that nothing stands in your way of being the marvelous human being that you’re here to experience, other than your own thoughts habits and conditioned reactions to life.
Step 4: Get sick and tired of avoiding the life that you know lays deep inside of you.
Step 5: Dare to begin seeing things differently, including yourself … and dare to do new things.
Step 6: Make “freedom to be all that you yearn to be” your single aim; waiver not.
If it is to be – it is up to thee.