To live your dreams requires that you live with integrity.
To live with integrity requires doing what needs doing to transform your imagined acts into physical facts.
For imagined acts to become physical facts your outer world must match your inner world.
It’s through the process of course-correction that you make your two worlds match.
Course-correction requires learning from your miss-takes, so that you may refine your action until you have a successful re-take. No excuses, no blame.
Refinement of your miss-takes is not some foolish scheme; it’s the only way to guarantee that you will live your dreams.