Tiredness comes from compulsively doing those things that are destroying your health and well-being. The person who is unable to separate himself from his compulsive tendencies is enslaved by his interior conditioning; conditioning that causes him to mechanically react to his exterior life. His life ebbs and flows with every passing weather pattern, or every time the stock market falls or rises, or with every report of good news or bad news that comes with the evening news. And so, he feels exhausted at the end of each day, not knowing that there is an entirely new way.
Yes, there is a new way of living. You don’t have to talk on incessantly when you have nothing to say. You don’t have to feel anxious when someone shows up that you think you have to impress. You don’t have to appear super successful or really intelligent for any reason whatsoever. The next five blogs are going to help you destroy the compulsions that are destroying you. The secret to living a successful, happy life is to notice what you are doing to YOURSELF that stops you from living incredibly.
Destroy What’s Destroying You – Tip # 3
Next time you have a nagging urge to impress others, stop to look at the fact that you are selling your soul for approval. Get out of that madhouse immediately. The only approval you need is YOURS. Live your own life. Do what feels right for you. When you do what’s right for you, you are living a life that’s right for the world. Never forsake your self-integrity to please another; remind yourself of this constantly, and then do what comes naturally. It will be the right and perfect thing to do.
Know right now that you always know what to do in any moment. Knowing what to do is not the problem. The problem is that you give yourself over to compulsive tendencies that you took on in youthful moments of fear and pain. Reminding yourself that you are living in a madhouse when you yield to the compulsive tendency that makes you do things to please others; this empowers you to see things differently and enables you to respond to the moment differently
Be sure to check out my latest feature in the Huffington Post:
How To Turn Your Daydreams Into Reality – Illustrated
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