The world will often tell you that the problems in your life are not your fault. Thousands will chime in with excuses that can convince you to give up on yourself. It’s popular today to talk about how ‘circumstances’ are very different from the past; when opportunity was prevalent at every street corner. In spite of the fact that our brains are more evolved than ever before, shying away from taking responsibility has become a main event in the minds of so many.
Your first duty in life is toward your own wellbeing and happiness. You are not being selfish when you make self-improvement your first choice in life. Because when you don’t value self-improvement, you’re not only unable to help yourself during hard times, but you’re also unable to be of any real service to others.
We begin learning early that we are living at the mercy of fate, or the super rich and powerful, or these trying times. So, what’s it take to see yourself as you truly are – an incredibly creative and powerful being? Because, only when you see the truth about yourself, will you come to the realization, that reacting like a victim is not a natural inclination.
Over the next five blogs, I will show you ways to realize that there are No Permanent Victims in our midst. When deeply realized, this fact serves as a compass that guides you toward the knowledge you need to take command of your life. Seeing the truth can be freeing when you deny the lies that make you feel weak when you are actually strong.
Victim No More tip # 4:
No longer accept that there are powers outside of you pulling the strings. Being yanked around by others’ is not your natural destiny. Take comfort in the fact that if there are any strings, you placed them there and you are the yanker. If it is to be, it is up to thee. So, what shall it be? Your situation in life changes drastically when your behavior changes drastically. Make the following statement your declaration-of-truth until you’ve read the fifth and last tip: “I deny the lie that I am a puppet on a string. I make reason out of whatever happens to me, and I make sure that the reason serves me. All that I need do is persist with framing my experiences with productive reasons, and many obstacles will fall away.”
With each of these Victim No More tips, you learn to give proper thought to a truth that will motivate you. As your motivation increases, you create an internal vibration; one that gives you power in the external world in which you live. You are a magic genie. You are increasing that motivation with each declaration that I offer.
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