It wasn’t but a month ago when I met an old friend for coffee at Starbucks. He was in a great mood and said, “Let’s start a business together. With my intelligence and your money, we can make a fortune.” I asked if he thought that might be a tad intrusive – him imposing his brain on my money. He said, “Not at all. I’ve got some very intelligent ideas brewing in my head.” I countered with this. “Okay, I’ll agree, but only if you agree that my role is to criticize every intelligent idea that you come up with, and your job is to come up with an even more intelligent idea.” We both had a hearty laugh over the insanity of the moment.
What isn’t funny about life is that there are folks who really believe it’s their job to use their brain to make decisions for everyone else. If it turns out good, they take full credit. However, if it turns out bad, they’re quick to blame the other guy for blowing the plan.
So, here are five tips that will help you stop getting lured in and dragged down by others who think they know what’s best for you. These tips help you develop what you want most: a feeling of high self-esteem, which is a quality of spiritual maturity.
Don’t Get Dragged Down Tip # 3: Handle The Moment By NOT Handling The Moment At All
When someone sneers at you, insinuating that you’re an idiot for what you’re doing – handle the moment by NOT handling the moment at all. Simply refuse to get personally involved. Sneering is the reaction of a harsh judging ego – be spiritually mature by recognizing this fact. Shed any influence the sneering person is trying to impose on you by continuing to do what is right for you in spite of his snorting and sneering.
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