You must decide what you want your life to be about and stimulate that decision with intense desire, if you intend to pre-pave the way to the life you dream of living. If your attitude is lackadaisical, your future is anyone’s guess.
When Alice asked the queen, “Which road should I take?”
The queen responded, “Where do you want to go.”
Alice replied, “I’m really not sure,”
To which the queen answered, “Then take any road you want; it really doesn’t matter.”
Most folks drift through life taking any road that comes along, because they have convinced themselves, “it doesn’t really matter.” This kind of thinking arises from a feeling of helplessness. Helplessness is a learned state that denies your potential. It has you finding yourself in the same situation year in and year out. It is the root cause of frustration and failure.
You were not born to lose. You did not take on human form to journey down any road that comes along. You need to realize that the way to happiness lies with your clear visions of what you intend.