You cause yourself to experience ‘Wow is Me’ when you pre-plan how your life shall be. ‘Wow is Me’ has you TENDING your behavior ahead of time; which is to Pre-Tend.
You have the inexorable right to create yourself to be as you intend to experience yourself. You have to set it up in your mind ahead of time and walk through life as though it is so, if it is to demonstrate through you. No one can do this for you.
Each of us carry within us an image of who we desire to be, and no one carries the same image. Every blade of grass is a different shade of green, and every human being is a different hue of personality.
Those folks who aspire to experience the joy of their unique creation, move toward that image with eager anticipation. They are willing to endure any hardship because their sights are set on the pleasure of the accomplishment. These folks engage in the fine art of Pre-Tending. They love pre-planning those tendencies and qualities they want as part of their personality. This empowering approach to life is a golden elixir. It offers psychic success which is the attainment of self-empowering wisdom.
There are other folks who are driven to avoid the pain of embarrassment. They make it their priority to convince others they are someone they are not. Looking good and avoiding ridicule are more important to them than creating themselves to be the unique individual they came here to experience. These folks engage in the act of ‘pretending’ – which is trying to look good for others, hoping to cover up the flawed-self they falsely consider themselves to be. This disempowering approach to life feeds into low self-esteem and has the individual feeling inferior. It dampens the individual’s spirit and stifles his creative energy.
The happiness you get from self-creation is a thousand times grander than material accomplishments.